Cart or Basket? Which One Do/Can you fill??

I was on twitter earlier today checking out my timeline (follow me @ninaniagraraw) and Mrs. Meeka Claxton from Basketball Wives 3 said "Y do I always get a basket.. Knowing I need a cart!" (follow her @meekaclaxton) I responded "@MeekaClaxton because your trying to have some self control & you figure the basket will assist w/that. #keepitreal #getacart" I immediately realized that I need to elaborate on that and address this on my blog. As simple as you may see it, that statement is truly symbolic of many of our lives today. We restrict ourselves to what can fit in "the basket" and not allowing ourselves to "fill a cart." This can be interpreted a few different ways. One can argue, "If I get a cart, it will encourage me to pick up shit I don't need." or "A cart will encourage me to buy things with money I don't have." Let me clarify the angle I am approaching this illustration from. I understand both of the arguments given. I am not speaking of the literal cart or basket, but more so the figurative. Ladies we need to step up our fucking game and start speaking into existence larger blessing that will fill a cart not a basket.


Basket Filler: This is your typical woman that looks unto others for acceptance of herself. She chases after societies perception of what should make her happy. She allows men to fill up her head with promises and makes life altering decisions based on these promises/lies. Biggest flaw of a "basket filler," not learning from her mistakes. Her limitations are self inflicted. She surrounds herself with enablers and "basket fillers" themselves. She's superficial, has a low self esteem and is a doormat for almost everyone in her life. She is her own worst enemy. Never pushing her boundaries and allowing her self to maximize on her true potential. She continues to make decisions that dig deeper and deeper holes in her life. Making it more difficult to ever bounce back. So it is no surprise when given the option to get a cart or a basket, she chooses the basket because that is what she thinks of herself and how she approaches life. Pessimistic with no drive, motivation, desire or foresight to envision anything more for herself, outside of what fits in that small restricting basket.


Cart Filler: This bitch walks in a room and without saying a word her presence screams: " I have arrived mother fuckers! Love me or hate me, I don't give a fuck. I will always and forever continue to do me. Limitations? What limitations? What does that word even mean? Anything you can do I can do better. I know my worth and with or without your acceptance I will succeed in anything and everything. I ask questions. I learn from my mistakes and I am ten steps ahead of you because I pay attention to the mistakes of others as well. I am 100+% on my own, a man/woman in my life is not an enhancement or requirement to my completion." A cart filler continues to challenge themselves and is inspired by growth and development. They are adventurous and will do what it takes to maximize on their potential. They surround themselves with like minded people and DO NOT settle for mediocrity. On a daily basis they speak into existence greatness and are fully aware that their blessings could NEVER fit into a basket.


Harsh but true reality.


Which one are you?


S/O to Meeka from BBW3. Thanks for the topic....Make sure you guys follow her on twitter @meekaclaxton.

"Hi My Name is Nina and I'm Obsessed with Ass."

For those of you that don't already know, I am infatuated with asses. I can ass watch for hours, days, weeks & months. I don't know what it is about a woman wit a dunk but it does something to me every time. I love to touch it, hump on it, nibble it, massage it. I have literally busted a nut off of watching a chick with a big ass jiggle and dance for me. The cherry on top of my ass fetish is a bitch with a phat ass AND bowlegged. Lord have mercy I just cant get enough. I don't usually do hood chicks because there mentality aggravates the hell outta me but when it comes to dirty, kinky no limit, no boundaries type of sex, there is nothing like a hood chick with a phat ass that can make it clap. When I first moved to the South I was in heaven with how free and loose these girls were. My fondest memory is of this chick that stripped at a club in Miami called "The Rolex." " Rolex was the KOD of Miami back in the days. This was the spot to go to see some nasty, freaky, ghetto, hoodrat bitches. This young lady (we'll call her Moca) was game for ANYTHING and EVERYTHING.  She just did what I asked. One night I brought MOCA back to my condo to hang with my boys. The drink of choice that night for me  was smirnoff beer. I told Moca to play with her pussy while I watched and she gladly obliged. When I was finished with my Smirnoff beer I asked her if she would let me fuck her with the bottle. Guess what? The bitch obliged!!! I will never forget how her pussy juices started to fill the bottle as I penetrated. It was truly a sight. Anyway, its late, I'm horney and thought I would share with my readers some of the pictures I was skimming through while I played with my pussy.........Enjoy, I sure am.

S/O to: Ass, Ass and MORE Ass!!!!  I fucking love this website!!!!

Fat Pussy or Non Fat Pussy...THAT is the Question

Now to be quiet honest, I know my pussy is the shit. It is what it is, I am not a self proclaimed "bomb pussy" claimer. I have referrals that can be provided upon request. However, the reason we are talking about this is because My home girl and I were in our office and on this day I happen to be wearing tights. Usually when we talk this freaky bitch is all in my titties but on this day I noticed hers eyes were fixated on my crotch. I paid it no mind because as I said her "around the clock horniness" is normal. Hence the reason she is my best friend. ( I love you bitch) Hey what can I say, birds of a feather flock together. Anyway, out the blue she says "damn Nina, I didn't know it was that serious." "What do you mean? What's serious?" She responds, "your Vagina!" Bitch that shit could cast its own shadow" I burst out laughing!! Now, as I stated before I know I have some good pussy but never looked into the variation of reasons as to why it is so addicting. I am a VERY sexual being, I enjoy sex more than most, so when I am having it I feel like a kid in a candy store. I can't get enough and can keep going till the shop closes. My pussy juices flow before, after and on triple overtime during sex. What I didn't really consider or look into is the fact my shit is phat as hell! Is it that bitches with phat pussies have better sex? Now that I think of it, the chicks in the porn that really get things popping and have the guys tripping out, tend to have phat pum pum themselves. They also tend to be the squirters and can back it up on a Mandingo of a cock like a pro. You also get more sound effects from a phat pussy. I don't know about you but I LOVE to hear that noise of a juicy pussy getting beat the fuck up. Now after a little bit of research with my Labia Licking Lesbians they said a phat pussy is definitely a plus. Especially during grinding. The pussy just sucks on there clits as the rub against each and gets EXTRA wet.

#pause....Masturbation Break

Oh goodness!!!!!!!! Wow, this topic has me jumping. Anyway, in conclusion as my dear friend JC tells me *in her Beyonce voice* "Who runs the world? Phat pussy bitches!"

I wanna hear from my readers on this one.........What do YOU think??!!!

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Home-Wrecker or Opportunist??!! Here's What Nina Thinks......

Let’s get to business.......

On the toilet this morning reading my Facebook updates and I see a friend of mine put a post about her disgust with Alicia Keys and the fact that she "deposited" herself into the mans marriage. Bullshit!!! Let me explain something to you. Swiss Beats made those vows in the eyes of GOD, his wife and whoever the fuck else; Not Alicia Keys. It is HIS responsibility to ensure he keeps his promise. The argument then became, "well it’s not right that the woman doesn’t respect the mans relationship and continues to pursue in the extramarital affair. Society’s problem once again is accountability!! Everyone continues to rag on Alicia Keys, dogging her for "taking the womans man." You hear her name in the tabloids more than Swiss and he was the mother fucker that was married not Alicia. In life no matter what you may stand for or believe in it is YOUR responsibility to fight for it. There will always be people that may not believe or support your cause but that does not give you reason to not uphold your values. If a woman makes the decision or promise to GOD that she will not partake in sexual intercourse before marriage; but finds a guy that sweeps her off her feet and she gives it up to him. Whose fault is that? Are we going to browbeat the guy and ask him “why did you make her have sex with you? She made a promise to GOD and here it is you just had to slip your dick in her pussy? How ridiculous does that sound???!!! Just as ridiculous as calling Alicia Keys a home wrecker! Alicia did not steal anybodies man! Obviously, the nigga was up for grabs and my girl had the highest bid. It is also very important to keep in mind that we do not know what was going on in that mans marriage. Or what kind of problems they were having. Additionally, we do not know what kind of conversations Swiss was having with Alicia. He could have led that woman to believe his marriage was ending way before she even came in the picture. Point blank, HE was under contract not Alicia, so get off my girls back! I know my ladies that are married may feel differently and I get that because it hits you closer to home than most. Fair warning: Check ya self b4 you wreck ya self! Did anyone stop to consider what Swiss Beats ex-wife may have been doing in her marriage that was not in her matrimonial contract?

I think this will be my next topic………..

How A Bitch Is Feeling Right Now!!!!! Good 2b BAAAAAACCCCCKKKKKKK!!!!

I'M BBBBBBBBAAAAAAACCCCCCCKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!

Bitches, niggas, whores, sluts, ladies, gents, playas and the haters, did you mother fucking miss me???!!!! OMG, I missed you guys terribly!!!! I see that you haven't forgotten about me. Appreciate all the emails, text messages and letters. I have the best and most loyal fans ever!!!! Nina had to handle some business. Now that things are a little more leveled I can get back to doing what I enjoy...writing about My Life: Raw, Real & All the Way Live!!!! Alot has went down over these past few months and I cant wait to share. Also, I will continue my journal entries of " Diary of a Female Pimp." How have you guys been doing? Any new shit going on with you? Make sure you hit me up with any special requests or "Ask Nina" questions, you know I am ALWAYS here for you mother fuckers.