Want a Threesome?? Let Me Help You Make it Happen. Here's How!!

It is almost every mans fantasy to have more than one woman in the bedroom. However, the truth of the matter is not many of these men can HANDLE two women in the bedroom. That is a topic for another blog, but I will address this one to the men that can. More women than you would believe are up to the idea of bringing another women in the bedroom. The biggest barrier from actually making it happen is the insecurities that come along with it. This is where you have to be the most attentive and provide the most assurance. If you are verbally abusive towards your woman and make her feel insecure with you by herself, she's going to be a harder sell for bringing in another party. Never make her feel that your bringing in a woman that has something she does not. The third party should be considered a tool to enhance that sexual moment. I stress the word "moment" and not "experience" because in her mind that's what this should be in order for her to feel comfortable. The experience is something you and her share, this extra person is just a temporary addition for that "moment" and can be placed to the side at any time and on her cue. Your woman MUST feel in control of the situation at all times. This is not the time to start pounding on your chest and letting your ego, cockiness or testosterone kick in. Stay away from comparisons and giving your opinion on what you think about the other woman. Believe it or not, this is a test from your girl. She wants to know, if this should go down, what about this other bitch is going to catch your attention the most. If the other woman has a fat ass and your girl is lacking, DO NOT bring it up!! Especially, if your woman has made mention of her flat ass being an insecurity. Ok, so how do you begin to plant the seed of interest? Start of watching porn with her. Stick to your usual guy on girl initially, then one day slip in a girl on girl flick and see how she reacts. Don't get too excited! Keep the focus on her, almost pretend you don't even see the flick. Here is where you really want to focus on alot of foreplay. Play with the pussy with every part of your body EXCEPT your dick. A perfect response would be her becoming very horny and start pleasing the hell outta you but don't encourage it. Say, "no baby I'm good. I just wanna inhale every ounce of you tonight." Make that night of sex be all about her. Oil her body, kiss on her nipples, suck her toes, lightly massage the back of her knee caps, etc. When you're done ask her if she enjoyed it? Not the flick, but the sex you guys had. Don't introduce it yet. Observe how much she pays attention to the flick, and make small comments like "damn that's beautiful." Nothing too sexual. After about a few times doing this (over a 3 or so week time period depending on how often you have sex) say this to her. "Baby, you know I notice your pussy gets really wet when we have those girl on girl movies playing. You have this glow about you and it really turns me on. I love to see when you get that excited, I just can't get enough of you." What she says after this can be the deal breaker. The key is patience and being passive. If you seem too antsy or aggressive, it will come off suspect. The next step is to get her in that environment but in a live setting. Schedule a romantic evening with your girl. Dinner at her favorite restaurant and maybe even a movie. Make sure you tell her throughout the night how gorgeous she looks. Not too much, you don't want to seem fake or overdo it. When dinner is done, take her to a classy strip club. I emphasize classy. If more than 30% of the strippers have bullet wounds and look a hot mess, not a good idea to take her to there. Remember, give her complete control. Watch her body language and by now she should have had a few drinks in her from dinner. If she questions why you brought her there say: "I'm sorry if I offended you baby. I couldn't help notice how excited you get when you watch the flicks, so I thought I would surprise you and let you see some of it live. If you're not comfortable we can leave right now, because this is all about you. I'm good with what I have at home." If she bites, then you are on your way. If she doesn't, then that means you may have been too hasty, not following my instructions to the T and need to start the process again. Whatever you do, do not get a lap dance for yourself!!! It's all about her! When you guys get home, have another amazing "all about her" love making session and get her feedback. Ask her if she enjoyed herself? Based on how she reacted with the women at the club you should have a good idea of whether or not she is down. Was she kissing on them? Touching on their breast? Making comments on body parts? How much was she into it? If there was a particular girl she was vibing, make mention of it. "Baby, you seem like you wanted to take home Cocoa." Tell her how sexy she looked messing with Cocoa. Offer in a joking manner to get her Cocoa for her birthday. Not for you and her, just her. Her response to all of this will let you know if you're ready for the next step. Next step, finding her a girl she would be interested in bringing home for herself. A lesbian club is a great place, many bisexual women are there. Make sure you are dressed to mother fucking impress. Smell is EVERYTHING. Subliminally, you're selling the package of both you and your girl. The potential should want to fuck your girl just as much as she would want to be fucked by you. Strive to be the baddest straight couple in the club and make sure your girl has the lead at all times. Never, ever, ever recommend a girl for her. Especially, not a friend of hers or yours. Remember, you are always on watch and being observed. Introduce, bringing home the girl as a pleasure for her ONLY. More than likely she'll want you to watch and get horny enough to want you to join in. Make sure you don't lose focus on your girl being the center of attention. Also, never make comments on the girls body. If you guys discuss it afterwards, stay on how great your girl looked and how nice it was to see her getting pleased. Especially, if you would like to have more than one session.

Good Luck! If you had any hiccups during the process, click on "contact me" button and I can throw some suggestions your way. Also, I would love to hear some of your stories.