Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Diary of a Female Pimp: Chapter 2 "My First Day at Work"

So here I am, first day on the job. I didn't know what to expect and as I think back on it, I was very nervous. It's one thing to get the party on an poppin when your drinking and having fun, but was I really capable of doing the same thing "on demand?" When I pulled up to the parking lot, I had a nice size roach (small remnants of a blunt) in my ashtray and decided to take a few hits to help with my nerves. When I walked in, who do I see first? My Brazilian boo, Honey. I hadn't had a chance to call her that week but she still seemed so happy to see me. When our eyes met she made a loud yelping sound and jumped on me. Damn! Good thing I had a strong stance or we would have both been on the ground. She started kissing me on my neck and cheeks asking me what I was doing there and if I came to see her. I told her the owner offered me a gig so I figured I would try it out. She walked me to the dressing room and re-introduced me to the girls. Well, let me say this. It was a re-introduction for them but an introduction for me. I was too fucked up that night to remember most of those women. They all seemed to be pleased and immediately took a liking to me. Honey had some girls that she was pretty close with and they didn't speak much English. She started to say something to them in Portuguese and they looked at me smiling. I asked Honey what she told them. She said she told them, how much she likes me and that I make her feel safe. Feel safe? I was thrown by that statement because I don't know what I could have done in my drunken state to make her feel safe. I just nodded and said "no worries, as long as I am here I will make sure you do well and keep you as safe as I possibly can." I had no idea that what I said would be translated the way it was. That was just me being nice and having conversation. In my head at that time, I didn't really have a plan or purpose for Honey. As far as I was concerned, she was a familiar face that would help me get through my jitters and familiarize me with the club. It was a Friday night and the club expected a pretty big turn out. When I went out on the floor it wasn't that busy yet, so Honey and I grabbed a drink and sat at a corner table to talk. She says to me "mommy I want only you to serve me tonight." If a guy is interested in me let me know what he wants to do and I can work something out." Wants to do? Work something out? This bitch be fucking in this club???!!!! Light bulbs went off in my head. I always heard about it but to actually be faced with it, kind of threw me for a loop. Within the next 30 minutes the club started to get busy. I was now nice off my weed, the few drinks I had with Honey and ready to mingle. I figured, why be anything else but "Nina". That's what got me the gig, so lets just have fun and make it a great night. I will never forget my first customer. He was an Italian guy. Tall, brown skin with a gorgeous smile. I walk over to his table and the first thing he says to me is "your new." I respond, "well your evidently not new, so how can I help you?" All of this of course with a flirtatious smile and body language. He laughs, "wow, spicy, sexy and a NY girl. Let me get a shot of Remy and a red bull." I take his order to the bar and quickly bring it back to him. The tab was $16.00. He gave me a $50.00 and said "keep the change." Keep the change??? That was a $32.00 tip???!!! He ask me my name and tells me to keep his glass full for the evening and he only wants me at his table. That night my Italian customer had 5 rounds and each time he tipped me the same amount. I continued to work the floor and made sure Honey and her customers were well taken care of. Apparently, I wasn't the only one looking at Honey that night. An older Spanish gentleman stopped me as I was walking by his table and asked me what she was drinking. He wanted to buy her a bottle of whatever it was and have me send her a message. To this day I don't know what made me respond this way, but I turned to him and said. " Honey is a very private and romantic woman. If you want to impress and get to know her, let me know your budget and I will set up something nice for you." This man looks at me, smiles, and hands me a Black American Express card. This would have been the 3rd time in my life I had seen one of these cards. I knew right away this man was MONEY!!!! The black card is "by invitation only." In order to be invited you must spend a minimum of $250,000 and your annual fee was $2,500. I took the card out of his hand and told him to follow me. I reserved the biggest VIP room we had, ordered 2 bottles of our finest champagne as well as a bottle of what he was drinking. I asked him what he liked to eat and ordered him as well as Honey some food. While he got cozy, I went to Honey and told her to take a quick shower, redo her makeup, change into something new and meet me in VIP room #4 in no more that 30 minutes. She looked at me funny wondering what was going on. I held her face and I said, "didn't you ask me to take care of you and didn't you say I made feel you safe?" She shakes her head in agreement. "Then trust me and lets make this money.".........

To Be Continued......
If you've missed the first two chapters click on the link "Diary of a female Pimp" up top or below to catch up

Friday, November 26, 2010

Poetic Justice: My Mission Is To Please....

As I release my inner beast and feast on your Anaconda dick
my mouth begins to salivate and my clit begins to tick
You see I have been waiting for you to appear in this room
so I can show you just how well I know that Ciara "Ridin" tune
I bought something nice that'll have me looking like a hoar
I'm hoping when were done Victoria wont be a secret anymore
Its been a long week and I have some knots in my back
I was hoping you could plow this pussy and possibly help me with that
Make sure you shave your pubics with special attention to your balls
I plan on juggling them in my mouth right before you enter my pussy walls
I'm a spread, bend, open and arch
Put that cum in my mouth cause I'm feeling slightly parched
I hope you're thirsty too because I don't believe in starvation
with this pussy on your face I plan on doing a full rotation
Wait don't move yet I need you to eat this ass
I want the scent of my juices on your lips to last
I told you this would be the best pussy you've had in your life
Now leave my money on the dresser and please go home to your wife

In the News: Check out Lil Kim – Black Friday (FULL SONG)

It's the edited version, which I hate because I love to hear her Raw & Uncut...but here's a taste.

Ding, ding, ding...Its about to be on an POPPIN!!!

Lil Kim – Black Friday (FULL SONG)

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Tight Pussy or Dry Pussy???!!! That is the Question.....

Bitch please!! Get over yourself. I had to address this topic after having a conversation with this young lady that thinks the reason its hard for men to get in her pussy is because it is "so tight." No bitch it's probably because your a lesbian, not into the dude or not a sexual person. People, let us not forget that this is the same part of your body that spits out a small human being. A vagina is made to stretch, there is very few men with a dick "too big" to fit in your pussy. I have said it before and I will say it again, sex is 99% mental. When you are sexually excited, two special glands at the entrance of the vagina, called Bartholin's Glands, produce extra secretions. The moisture from these glands is more slimy than the moisture from the cervix, because its purpose is to provide good lubrication while you are having sex. As with most things in your body it has to be triggered. If you find yourself not getting moist, it may simply mean you are not aroused. This can stem from a variation of reasons. Inadequate foreplay, feelings of guilt, fear, relationship problems, not being attracted to the person, exhaustion etc....The list is endless but is all controlled by your mind. How important sex is to you as well as how important sex with that person is to you is a huge contributing factor. Also, remember that men generally get aroused sooner than women, so your man may be attempting to get in your pussy before you are ready. I will give you this, during menopause a women's oestrogen tends to be lower. Oestrogen is responsible for the plumpness of the lining of the vagina, for the elasticity of the tissues round the vagina and for the production of the moisture from the cervix. However, as women we produce an over abundance of juices so if you're really into your partner this decrease in oestrogen level should not impact you sex drastically, if at all. Guys if midway during sex your girls pussy goes dry, check yourself. Your girl has mentally checked out of this fuck session and you've no longer made it a "we" sex, instead its now a "me" sex. This is where really getting to know your woman's body comes in extremely handy. Personally, I think lube for a woman's pussy is a very selfish product. Lube is basically ignoring a woman's body speaking out. Dry pussy is a woman's body telling you, "I'm not impressed lets try something else." Why would you want to ignore that? Sex should be a mutual enjoyment! Why should the time span of a sexual session be determined by when a man cums? What if I want to keep fucking? My man should be able to read my body language and know that I have a few more rounds left in me. If he feels himself getting ready to cum, he should slow his pace or do what needs to be done to hold back on that nut. Ladies, if dry pussy is a common occurrence for you I ask you check your sexuality and your mate. One of the two is not a match. Unfortunately, we live in a society that places so much importance on getting to know other people before really getting to know yourself. Its impossible to conclude on your likes based on someone else. Get to know your bodies ladies! Masturbate, attend sex classes, find out what things turn you on. Most relationships start to come apart at the seams once that sexual chemistry and sexual desire for your mate is lost. That is the reality, so don't fight it. Embrace it, and actively work towards a healthy sexual relationship with your partner. So, to that young lady that swears her pussy is just so damn tight and that's why her man can't get in.......#getthefuckouttahere

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Come & Find My G-Spot

In talking to some guys this week, I posed this question. Do you know where your woman's G-Spot is? Surprisingly, more than half gave me the wrong answer and a quarter of them didn't answer. As a sexually active woman, I can say that this "erogenous zone" is SOOOO underrated. The medical term for the "G-Spot" is The Gräfenberg Spot. It is the bean shaped area of the vagina that when stimulated can lead to high levels of sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and female ejaculation (aka squirting). Whats so great about the "G-Spot is that you don't have far to go to reach it. It is typically one to three inches up the front of the vagina. It is EXTREMELY sensitive and a part of the female prostate. Take a look at the diagram below, it will demonstrate the proper way to approach the "G-Spot":
You slide the index & middle finger in slowly, palms up. You won't need to go in too far but not too shallow either & when u reach her spot her body will let you know. It will feel like a little pocket that bulges out & you will want to hook it with your fingers as if you are trying to pull it out towards you. Be very gentle and pay attention to her body reaction. It will be best to change up the tempo a bit depending on how she reacts, sometimes faster sometimes slower. Subtle and soft vibrations, as if your drumming on an egg. My favorite variation includes using your thumb to stimulate the clit while working the G-spot. *deep sigh* This one gets me EVERY time! Guys if you love to see your ladies squirt, this is a great way to help that. (not all women are squirters, so don't be upset if your women doesn't) Once you find the spot, it may feel a little something like this:
Guys, if you are successful in this plight, I can assure you this will take your sex to another level. Do you kind of understand a little better why lesbians have so much fun?
Speaking of Lesbians shout out to my favorite one @bball3r on twitter...thanks for allowing me to "interview" you ;-)
Guys, good luck and to my ladies, your welcome.

Monday, November 22, 2010

In the News: Oh No She Didn't!! Kim Zolciak Pregnant!!!!

This one is for my faithful Atlanta Housewives watchers. I know you saw the Bravo after show special last night when Kim said and I quote..."why do people keeping saying I'm pregnant, do I look fat?" Then all of a sudden at 9:30 this morning she blasts this tweet:
Lying ass Kim...And her "Google Me" song was HORRIBLE!!!!

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Diary of a Female Pimp: Chapter 1 "The Morning After"

The morning after a night of hard partying is always a bitch. I woke up in a house that wasn't familiar, with people I didn't recognize and my ass hurt. I had the headache of a lifetime. I didn't question the ass pain too much because I was in a house full of women, but then again.....never mind. I searched around for my phone and immediately called my girls. I hear a phone in a neighboring room and soon realize that my girls were all safe and sound with me. A few minutes later I see a gorgeous looking woman come into the bedroom with a tray of food. It was "Honey", my Brazilian boo. Apparently, I stayed at the club until after hours and continued drinking with the owner and his cronies. They put us in a limo and we ended up in this big ass house in Davie, FL. I didn't realize how big this house was until about a good hour and a half of sobering up. This mother fucker had a West wing and an East wing in that bitch. He had a full size Olympic pool in what I think was his backyard. The shit was about as big as the parking lot of Sawgrass Mills Mall. (look it up) I later found out this was one of the many homes of the owner that he called the "party house." A fucking 3.7 million dollar house is your "party house?" His "guest house" was a 4 bedroom 3.5 bathroom on its own acre of land. This was just a completely different type of living. My Brazilian boo "Honey" told me that I threw up on myself and was a complete mess. This wonderful woman stripped me completely naked, ran me a tub of bubble bath water and washed every part of my body. I was wondering why I smelled so damn good after a night of sweating so hard. I will never forget, she made me scrambled eggs with cheese, some toast and a cup of coffee. By this time my girls had woken up and we started reminiscing about our evening.(at least what we remembered) One of the lady's in the house came to us and said our ride was outside to take us back to our cars. Honey was so sad to see me go, I was starting to believe she might actually really like me. I gave her my number and told her to call me so we could hang out sometime. As I was walking to the limo my phone went off, it was a text. It was Honey with her broken English and she said, "I am so happy I you meet and I promise you will see me soon beleza preta." Damn, Nina!! What the fuck happened last night???!!! When we entered the limo the driver pulled down the barrier window and told me I have a call coming through on line one, make sure you answer. I answered the phone and it was the owner I spoke with last night. He wanted to make sure I didn't forget what we spoke about and asked that I come to the club to start working that Friday. Oh shit!! This mother fucker was serious!!! He asked that I wear black leather pants and he would provide my shirt. During the ride home I had to slowly start to wrap my head around what I just agreed to. I know that the liquor had alot to do with my decision but I have never been the one to back out from a commitment or easy money. This man was saying I could potentially bring home $1000.00 cash a night. I figured, if he was bullshitting me that would be my easy out. Then I could go back to my normal scheduled program as I knew it.

The shit was official, I could now add "cocktail waitress" to my resume.....What I didn't know is that I would soon be adding another title to my resume..........

Did you miss the intro? Click on the "Diary of a Female Pimp" tab up top to get caught  up

In the News: Messy Mya's Murder & His Eerie Final Tweets

Some of you may be familiar with Anthony Barre aka "Messy Mya" He was an up and coming YouTube sensation out of New Orleans. Mainly known for his "hoodlike" trash talking and "roasting." Apparently, while attending the baby shower for his girlfriend he was gun downed and killed in the middle of the street last Sunday. What's sad is that people gathered around him, started taking pictures of his lifeless body and streaming them to twitter. Admittedly,I was surprised when they said he had a girlfriend because when you see his videos on YouTube he has some very strong feminine traits. Who am I to judge.#movingon
I had to do some digging, so I went to his twitter page and two post stood out to me. The first post was the one he put up the day of his murder:
However, what stood out to me the most was the post he put up the night before his murder when he questioned what we think about right before we die. This post gave me CHILLS!!!! Is this what goes through our mind during the last 24 hours of our life on earth???!!!!
Here is the video of his funeral service:
Here is one of his latest YouTube videos:

My condolences to his family........

Friday, November 19, 2010

Diary of a Female Pimp: My Introduction into the Industry

I am in complete disbelief that of all the things I have shared with my readers I neglected to share with them the brief fours years of my life that I....well I like to call it "managed pussy." It's best I begin by telling you how I fell into this "profession." Crazy as I think about it but it really gave me some insight on the "power of persuasion." I moved to the south with a decent bucket of money to invest in some real estate. It was booming down there at that time and quickly became a mad rush to get what you could and as much as you could. Real Estate agents and mortgage brokers were making tons of money and just dominating the business world. Everyone was going back to school to get their real estate license and getting loans to open there own office. It was madness, and many people hit gold mines with properties they were able to purchase. At one point after the real estate agents began making so much money, they started doing showings on properties they purchased exclusively. Needless to say I ate good during this time. I didn't intend on moving to the South.  When I came down, after a few weeks, I decided to not go back. Miami was the shit! Being so close to the Caribbean afforded me the luxury of island hopping and traveling all over the world. One evening a few girlfriends of mine and I decided to take a trip to a local strip club. Now for those of you that know me personally, or my readers that have been following me faithfully, shouldn't be surprised when I say one thing I do very well is work a crowd. If I am having a good time I want everybody in my circle to enjoy themselves as well. One of my business partners said it best: "Nina you bring a ray of sunshine wherever you go." That night I shut that mother fucking club down! We had all the girls at our table giving us FREE dances and buying US drinks. Dancers would just walk over to our table get completely naked, do everything and anything on demand. This was all without us spending a dime. I remember there was a young girl there from Brazil that walked over to me when we first sat down. The baddest bitch I had seen all month. She leans over whispers in my ear and says, "I want to dance for you." I really had no intentions of getting a dance and didnt want her to waste time with me when she could be making money. As I began to decline her offer she grabs my hands and says "for free mommy, I just want to feel your body." Feel my body??? I was confused. She was gorgeous and had the prettiest skin I've ever seen. With no hesitation she began to remove her top, straddled me and started kissing on my neck. Her name was "Honey." She kept whisperiing in my ear how much I made her horney, how she loved how my hands felt on her body and then begged me to slip my fingers in her pussy so she could cum. Of course I obliged......;-)
 We had all the customers and high rollers hanging out with us. Buying bottles and bottles of champagne, getting private rooms, VIP's were coming over to our table wondering "who the fuck is this bitch?" They made it rain at our table like it was going outta style. It seems as though people were calling their friends because within a few hours that club was PACKED and this was a Tuesday evening. I remember seeing Deon Sanders brother in there that night and he sent over a stack of 1's as tall as a Heineken bottle just to make sure we were able to keep the bitches around us happy. We had female customers going on stage, getting naked and being eaten out by some of the dancers. We had blow jobs going down free willy in the back. That night it was " Club Nina." Towards the end of the evening as the DJ started to wind things down the Manager came over to my table and said the owner is there and wanted to speak with me. I was fucked up outta my mind but pulled myself together and walked into a back room to talk to this guy. He said to me that in the x amount of years he's had this club he has never seen a customer get it crunk the way I did. That night they made more money than any Tuesday since the club had opened, even when they have featured guests. He then asked me if I was looking for a job and if I would be interested in working for the club. I thought he wanted me to strip, but cleared it up and said he wanted me to work as a cocktail waitress. He wanted me to continue to work the audience the way I did that night. I wasn't looking for a job and definitely didn't see being a damn cocktail waitress at a strip club in my future. I guess he saw in my face that I wasn't impressed and felt the need to up the stakes. He took my hand, put $1000.00 cash in them and said "you make your own hours, you'll have unlimited access to the bar whenever you are here whether you are working or not and if you can get the crowd crunk like this, I can guarantee you will see what I put in your hands and even more in tips every night. I was sold!

That night was my first and official introduction into the sex industry........

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Masturbation: Can it ever be too much??!!!

One of my readers asked me a question the other day and I thought I would address with you guys. He says to me "Nina, do you think it is possible to masturbate too much?" Honestly, there is not a straight yes or no answer to that question. Masturbation is like dining at a restaurant that you know has really good food, but has sub par service and lacks an ambiance. You wouldn't take a date with you to this restaurant, it's just your own little spot where you get your shit and leave. Sometimes, if you know a person really well and have done all the right things already to impress them; you may take them with you to this restaurant just so they can get a quick sample of how good the food is. I have been told masturbation helps to curve a hyperactive sexual appetite. I have also been told that it is a catalyst for a hyperactive sexual appetite. I think in situations where important things are being neglected is when you have to really question the impact its having on your life. If you are in a relationship and you find yourself running to the bathroom or desperately seeking some privacy so that you can masturbate, that could be a problem. I would highly recommend you evaluate your relationship and decide if that is where you want to be. Why would you rather beat your meat or finger your clit than be with your mate? An increase in masturbation could mean problems in a relationship that you are neglecting to face and attend to. The problem may not necessarily be your mate either. It could be YOU! It could mean that you have adopted lazy sexual and selfish behaviors. It's like using a calculator every time you have to add or multiply small numbers. Eventually, you become so dependent on it that you find difficulty in solving small problems. Masturbation is essentially a "quickie." Another thing to consider is you are training your body to reach a sexually gratifyng peak within minutes, sometimes seconds. That is indeed a formula for disaster. I want to make sure you don't think I am condemning masturbation or feel as though it is in any way shape or form a bad idea. Quite the contrary! Masturbation was something that helped me really get to know my body and familiarize myself with what I like and what I don't like. It helped/helps me to better train and guide my sexual partners. It can also be fun if every once in a while you share the experience together. Watch how your partner breaths when they are close to climax. Watch where there hands go on there body as they are about to climax. I had no clue that a guy I was seeing gets so aroused when his nipples are being pinched, until I watched him jerk off. It was such a turn on to see him and observe how his body reacts. I asked him, " why didn't you tell me you like that?" He responded that he didn't feel very masculine talking about it and sometimes he doesn't even know he's doing it. He gets lost in the moment and that's where his body craves sensation. Our sex life became so much more amazing because we now had extra insight on each other and he felt more sexually comfortable around me. The worst kind of sex, is what I call "insecure or weird feeling" sex. If your not comfortable with your body or have a willingness to learn about your partner sexually, it's just going to be off. My big girls, stop trying to fuck with your t- shirt or bra's on. First, he knows your a big girl and that's probably why he chose you. Second, it's a sure sign of insecurities and that is not sexy. Embrace your body and all it has to offer. That t-shirt and bra isn't hiding a damn thing. Wild out and get your freak on!!! If he seems "disgusted" by your size then fuck him. At least you know you busted a good nut and also know this nigger is for the birds so DEUCES. My ladies with the stretch marks, get over it. If the man your fucking with is THAT shallow, you definitely do not want him in your life. Especially, if the stretch marks are from HIS kids. Confidence goes a long way, love yourself and you'll find that there is someone out there than can and will appreciate ALL OF YOU.

In closing, masturbation can actually be a great tool to enhance a sexual relationship. Just be mindful of its frequency and don't be afraid to share the experience with your partner. If you are single, be VERY careful. It can promote sexual laziness. How often is too often? Only you can decide that. I would say take the number of times you have sex when you are in a relationship(not the early stages, after the new boo steam has died down a bit) divide that by four and use that number. As you move further into your single life you may want to decrease that number some more. Ladies, don't be afraid of one night night stands. My motto is people come in your life for a reason and a season. That mother fuckers "reason or season" may be to scratch an itch you can't reach. Don't deny him/her of his/her duties or deny yourself the nut.....I'm just saying.

What? What did you say? Oh, you want tips on having a GREAT, pussy and cock juice squirting masturbatorial session? No problem...stay tuned.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Interviews: Mister Untouchable and HIS First Time.....

Once again I have the esteemed pleasure of meeting some of the most interesting people. They are always open and ready to tell me about some of their sexual escapades. The young man who sent me his story is no exception to the rule. As a matter of fact he has so many stories to share that we had to break it up in parts. (dirty little slut) This young man goes into detail on his first gay experiences and gives us ladies some pretty good tips on how to suck a mans dick till his toes curl. My straight male readers, you may wanna sit this one out. (or not) Nina family I introduce to you, Mr. Untouchable:

This is to that nasty,raw and uncensored Nina Niagra who asked me to write her my experiences as a gay male. It started off with the step by step process to satisfy any man orally, but then I thought to myself that would not be enough. I just don't want to write words as if this were a school project. The same way Nina takes her blog seriously is the same way I'm going to share a few stories. They may not be appropriate for everyone so please if you are close minded or can't relate to the stories then do me a favor and SUCK IT. Funny enough, sucking it is how this whole experience started for me. I would say that this one event turned me into the person I am today, but not the everyday person just the sexual predator that we know we can be.

16, this is how old I was when I started to explore the world of sexuality. Now most young men at 16 don't worry about sneaking around because deep down they want someone to catch them so they can be seen as the new king. I'M GAY; so the entire getting to know someone, flirting, and feeling comfortable was not an option for me. I remember always having the urge to be close to a man, touch and feel and still feel human. They say you learn from those close to you and I did have a good mentor. Even though she never took it far enough with dudes like having sex, I did learn that words were very important and a weapon to get what you wanted. I used to call the local chat line, place a greeting and hope that someone would be interested in getting to know me. Deep down I wanted to just have sex until I began to hear the horror stories of first time sex for gay males. I did what any young man of my virginal status would do, started off with oral sex, and trust me this was not an easy task. I remember finding this dude who told me he wanted to meet me at the mall. So, I used to have this lie made up for my parents about me going to look for jobs. Of course I was a pro at not telling the truth to get my way but anyways they dropped me off and I'm here waiting for this guy. I waited 20 minutes and I meet him on the top floor of the mall just nervous. He of course wanted sex and with this being my first time I didn't know. We talked for 2 hours and then I went home thinking that he would never want to speak to me again. 2 weeks later he told me to meet him at his college. This is very funny to me because thinking back I have always been the younger one. "I'M IN LOVE WITH A MAN NEARLY TWICE MY AGE, I DON'T KNOW WHAT IT IS BUT ITS A THING FROM MY YOUTHFUL DAYS." This song describes me to a T; Back to the story. I had never sucked dick, before, didn't know what was suppose to be done or anything, so I let him take the lead. We went to the music room that only had a keyboard, piano and space for 2. He unzipped and I tried to stall as much as I could. Eventually, I began to suck him and he did the same. As I was going along he told me what to do, what to use and what not to use. It was an embarrassing moment I will admit,but it was one of the best. From that point I became the teacher and wanted to give that wow moment in anything sexual that I did. THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I EVER PLACED THESE SEXY LIPS ON ANY MAN.
A few months had past and I knew I was ready to take it to the next level with a guy. I didn't want a relationship or anything because most people talked about being in a relationship in school and to me it just meant another headache. I knew I just wanted sex so sex is what I found. The first time I had sex I skipped school. I ate nothing for 2 days prior to make sure that I didn't make a mess or embarrass myself for my first time having sex. We will call him "Perry". Perry was 22, dreads, smoked weed, funny, educated and the nicest dick I had ever seen. I started off with sucking his dick so good. THIS IS A LESSON AND I WANT ALL MEN AND WOMEN TO LEARN: YOU HAVE TO BE IN CONTROL WHEN SUCKING DICK BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T THEN NEITHER ONE OF YOU WILL ENJOY IT. I STARTED SUCKING ON THE HEAD SLOWLY NOT TO FAST AND NOT TO ROUGH, THEN I STARTED TO SUCK A LITTLE HARD BUT START GOING DOWN FURTHER AND FURTHER. BEST PART IS WHEN THE MAN YOU ARE WITH BEGINS TO LET GO AND YOU START TO PACE YOURSELF WITH A RHYTHM THAT IS UNIQUE TO THAT MANS BODY. IF YOU REALLY WANT TO SHOW HIM THAT YOU ARE THE PRO JUST USE NO HANDS. TEETH ARE NOT ALWAYS A BAD THING BECAUSE AS YOU DEEP THROAT JUST STOP EVERY FEW INCHES AND JUST GENTLY BITE DOWN. I GUARANTEE THAT YOU WILL SEE YOUR MAN ENTER A LEVEL OF CLIMAX HE HAS NEVER ENTERED BEFORE. YOU KNOW YOU DID A GOOD JOB WHEN YOU SEE HIS TOES CURL UP LIKE A LITTLE BITCH AND ALSO WHEN HE CLIMAXES IN YOUR MOUTH AND YOU CONTINUE TO SUCK HIS DICK. HE HAS NO POWER AND THAT IS HOW IT SHOULD BE. So back to the story we go. After 30 minutes of head we got ready. I remember this as if I was experiencing this all over. All I could see is this large 10 inch dick in my face and knowing that it will soon be inside my body I just froze. I had to give myself a quick 10 second pep talk to do what I know I had to do. I remember he put on the condom, got the lube and all I can think of was the horror stories I had heard. As he pushed, I felt a release that my body had been calling and yearning for. "I WAS FREE AND IN CONTROL" because when I knew he was inside of me, the stripper in me came out. I started to just back it up and I wrapped my legs and locked them in while in the doggy style position, got low and arched my back. It's crazy to say but its like my body knew what to do. Afterwards he asked me if I was really a virgin. Initially I was offended, but I got over it quick because I learned from that moment I could use sex as a measure of getting what I needed.

To Be Continued.........

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Poetic Justice: He Beat Me, It's My Fault.....Right???!!

You've been beating my ass for 7 long years
My darling husband I don't think I have any more tears
I promised that I would be loyal, supportive and true
but it seems like that was never good enough for you
You always threaten that if I leave there will be a repercussion
but I didn't know getting milk for the baby would cause me a concussion
your insecurities have spilled over, what happened to my four leaf clover
We were once Bonnie and Clyde, I was so pleased to be your bride
Now I'm sitting here in my own pool of blood caused by your fist and a broom
I'm petrified and in so much pain but I hear my baby girl crying in the next room
What did I do this time to get you pissed? Oh yeah, how could I forget I asked you for a kiss.
Silly of me to forget rule 29, when the game is on never approach you from behind
I was trying to make up for upsetting you last night
What did I do again? Oh yeah I was reading and forgot to turn off the light
I'm feeling kind of dizzy, must be the blood loss
but if I pass out, there will be cops and this we avoid at all cost
Oh goodness I hear you calling, what did I do wrong
Let me hurry and stand up I need my man to see I'm strong
Wait, what's that in his hand my eyes swollen so its hard to see
It looks kind of metallic, did my man buy something special for me?
Oh no, please don't tell me that's what I think it could be
I'm your wife, your lover, the mother of your child
This can not be happening, my mind is going wild
I'm looking at this nigga about to pull this trigger
my vows flash before me, is this how it will end
Till death do us part, I love you with all my heart
I close my eyes and yell a loud roar
As I open them I see him fall to the floor
You see I made a decision that my life's worth much more
I knew that 45 would come in handy behind the door

R.I.P.....Mother Fucker

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Sexual Anorexia??!! WTF Is That???!!!!!

One evening this week, I watched a program that felt uncomfortably familiar. A young married couple came on and a husband started speaking of his difficulty in having sex with his wife. He said he would find ways to avoid having sex with her. It varied from picking fights, to staying up late or falling asleep before her. He was not having issues with impotence because he would masturbate regularly and was able to get easily aroused. His issues would only come about when sex was initiated with his wife. They went from having sex a few times a day, to having sex a few times a week, to having sex once a month, to once every few months. His wife had an extremely healthy sexual appetite and this quickly became a problem. She started to wonder if infidelity was a factor or if her husband was gay. She even went as far as making her husband take a lie detector test and be hypnotized. There marriage was on the brink of breaking up and they were not in a good place. I tell people all the time, sex in a relationship is more important than we care to admit. The husband was completely confused as to what he was going through because he was very much attracted to his wife and still sexually desired her. He was just not able to perform sexually with her. The act of sex with his wife became emotionally stressful, but he could not figure it out. As a last attempt to save there marriage, they went to a doctor to see if there was something medically wrong with him. What this couple found out was something they both never heard of, but felt relieved with the diagnosis. This husband had something called "Sexual Anorexia." Sexual Anorexia is a term used to describe a loss of "appetite" for romantic-sexual interaction. Basically, the person has a fear of intimacy to the point of severe anxiety when it comes to sex that requires being emotionally vested. Usually common in an intimate relationship. What is so confusing about sexual anorexia is that you/they commonly appear to have a sexual addiction, but more accurately fit the definition of sexual anorexic. They seem to lack the ability to have a relationship of a sexual nature beyond a paid-for or anonymous experience. Having sex is not the problem, intimacy is. A sex addict is often married or in a committed relationship before deciding or realizing that treatment for the addiction is needed. Hence the reason it took this husband getting married before he even realized he had a problem. A sexual anorexic may have a social phobia or be so fragile emotionally that the risk of rejection or criticism is debilitating. This fear of rejection stems from the person being so emotionally invested with there partner, that it ultimately cripples them of the ability to be sexually intimate. I share this with my readers, for fear that many of us are incorrectly self diagnosed. However, most importantly I feel as though many relationships are in danger of dissolving as a result of Sexual Anorexia. In no way am I condoning infidelity, but I think we should be open to these possibilities. Especially, when we have a partner that is a repeat offender with cheating. A relationship is work, and requires much attentiveness in order to preserve it. I think as human beings, when we share ourselves sexually it is such a personal expression, that we tend to be less understanding, forgiving or patient when our partner cheats. We are unwilling to be open to the possibility that our partner may be experiencing psychological issues. As with any disease, some are incurable. After an honest attempt to remedy the "disorder", then you have to decide what will be best for you and your sanity. I think it is important to reach out for professional or mature help. We can't expect change by us demanding it or expecting it. Our partner may be dealing with deep emotional scars from their childhood. It's 100x more difficult for a man to admit sexual abuse at a young age for fear of embarrassment. This past could lead to a distorted view of what a healthy sexual relationship should look like. I write this post with an extremely heavy heart, because I can now understand better the reason for some of my relationships not working out. I chalked it up to me just being bored and needing someone that was more "sexually compatible." I failed to remember that at one point this person/s matched me quite well, but once it no longer became a challenge I lost interest. I felt solice in knowing there is help for Sexual Anorexia. Treatment is aimed at helping the person see where his/her fears really are and to see the world in less black and white terms. Therapist will encourage you/us to take calculated risks with social activities. The goals for both sex addicts and sexual anorexics is to learn to have healthy sex, get emotional needs met in direct ways, and to set healthy boundaries. It requires ongoing treatment with the end goal of autonomy, independence, and improved social relationships. Be open to the possibility, knowledge is power.

Having this blog has been such an amazing vice for me. I have acquired fans all over the world that share and appreciate the things I talk about. This will be my 100th post since the launch of NinaNiagra and I want to thank EVERYONE (including my haters) for your continued support in making this blog successfull.

Monday, November 8, 2010

In the News: Kat Stacks Locked Up!!!

At this point its probably old news, but the infamous celebrity slut bucket Kat Stacks (@ihateKatStacks on twitter) was arrested 2 days ago for some immigration issues. She is originally from Venezuela and apparently she recently filed for citizenship. Well for those of you that don't know, they do the mother load of background checks on your ass when you do that and it looks like some things came up that may end up getting her deported. She was at the airport in Nashville and security was giving her problems. These were her tweets as it was going on:
Check out her last tweets as she is getting arrested:

Her mother (@momma_stacks on twitter) and her management team (@Qworldstar on twitter), have been tweeting on her behalf on occasion letting her "fans" know whats going on with her. Truthfully, I think this bitch was set up. It would have been too dangerous and suspect to kill her ass but they may end up getting her where it hurts most, her "hoeaccount."....LMAO

Like I always say, Karma is a bitch and she is ALWAYS on time!!!

Friday, November 5, 2010

Want a Threesome?? Let Me Help You Make it Happen. Here's How!!

It is almost every mans fantasy to have more than one woman in the bedroom. However, the truth of the matter is not many of these men can HANDLE two women in the bedroom. That is a topic for another blog, but I will address this one to the men that can. More women than you would believe are up to the idea of bringing another women in the bedroom. The biggest barrier from actually making it happen is the insecurities that come along with it. This is where you have to be the most attentive and provide the most assurance. If you are verbally abusive towards your woman and make her feel insecure with you by herself, she's going to be a harder sell for bringing in another party. Never make her feel that your bringing in a woman that has something she does not. The third party should be considered a tool to enhance that sexual moment. I stress the word "moment" and not "experience" because in her mind that's what this should be in order for her to feel comfortable. The experience is something you and her share, this extra person is just a temporary addition for that "moment" and can be placed to the side at any time and on her cue. Your woman MUST feel in control of the situation at all times. This is not the time to start pounding on your chest and letting your ego, cockiness or testosterone kick in. Stay away from comparisons and giving your opinion on what you think about the other woman. Believe it or not, this is a test from your girl. She wants to know, if this should go down, what about this other bitch is going to catch your attention the most. If the other woman has a fat ass and your girl is lacking, DO NOT bring it up!! Especially, if your woman has made mention of her flat ass being an insecurity. Ok, so how do you begin to plant the seed of interest? Start of watching porn with her. Stick to your usual guy on girl initially, then one day slip in a girl on girl flick and see how she reacts. Don't get too excited! Keep the focus on her, almost pretend you don't even see the flick. Here is where you really want to focus on alot of foreplay. Play with the pussy with every part of your body EXCEPT your dick. A perfect response would be her becoming very horny and start pleasing the hell outta you but don't encourage it. Say, "no baby I'm good. I just wanna inhale every ounce of you tonight." Make that night of sex be all about her. Oil her body, kiss on her nipples, suck her toes, lightly massage the back of her knee caps, etc. When you're done ask her if she enjoyed it? Not the flick, but the sex you guys had. Don't introduce it yet. Observe how much she pays attention to the flick, and make small comments like "damn that's beautiful." Nothing too sexual. After about a few times doing this (over a 3 or so week time period depending on how often you have sex) say this to her. "Baby, you know I notice your pussy gets really wet when we have those girl on girl movies playing. You have this glow about you and it really turns me on. I love to see when you get that excited, I just can't get enough of you." What she says after this can be the deal breaker. The key is patience and being passive. If you seem too antsy or aggressive, it will come off suspect. The next step is to get her in that environment but in a live setting. Schedule a romantic evening with your girl. Dinner at her favorite restaurant and maybe even a movie. Make sure you tell her throughout the night how gorgeous she looks. Not too much, you don't want to seem fake or overdo it. When dinner is done, take her to a classy strip club. I emphasize classy. If more than 30% of the strippers have bullet wounds and look a hot mess, not a good idea to take her to there. Remember, give her complete control. Watch her body language and by now she should have had a few drinks in her from dinner. If she questions why you brought her there say: "I'm sorry if I offended you baby. I couldn't help notice how excited you get when you watch the flicks, so I thought I would surprise you and let you see some of it live. If you're not comfortable we can leave right now, because this is all about you. I'm good with what I have at home." If she bites, then you are on your way. If she doesn't, then that means you may have been too hasty, not following my instructions to the T and need to start the process again. Whatever you do, do not get a lap dance for yourself!!! It's all about her! When you guys get home, have another amazing "all about her" love making session and get her feedback. Ask her if she enjoyed herself? Based on how she reacted with the women at the club you should have a good idea of whether or not she is down. Was she kissing on them? Touching on their breast? Making comments on body parts? How much was she into it? If there was a particular girl she was vibing, make mention of it. "Baby, you seem like you wanted to take home Cocoa." Tell her how sexy she looked messing with Cocoa. Offer in a joking manner to get her Cocoa for her birthday. Not for you and her, just her. Her response to all of this will let you know if you're ready for the next step. Next step, finding her a girl she would be interested in bringing home for herself. A lesbian club is a great place, many bisexual women are there. Make sure you are dressed to mother fucking impress. Smell is EVERYTHING. Subliminally, you're selling the package of both you and your girl. The potential should want to fuck your girl just as much as she would want to be fucked by you. Strive to be the baddest straight couple in the club and make sure your girl has the lead at all times. Never, ever, ever recommend a girl for her. Especially, not a friend of hers or yours. Remember, you are always on watch and being observed. Introduce, bringing home the girl as a pleasure for her ONLY. More than likely she'll want you to watch and get horny enough to want you to join in. Make sure you don't lose focus on your girl being the center of attention. Also, never make comments on the girls body. If you guys discuss it afterwards, stay on how great your girl looked and how nice it was to see her getting pleased. Especially, if you would like to have more than one session.

Good Luck! If you had any hiccups during the process, click on "contact me" button and I can throw some suggestions your way. Also, I would love to hear some of your stories.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Fuck the Shit Outta Me or Give Me Great Sex: Do you know the Difference?

So he says to me, " Baby I'm a fuck the shit outta you." My response, "ok but will the sex be good?" He looks at me confused. "Of course, you ain't hear me tell you I'm a fuck the shit outta you, of course it's gonna be good." I would never assume such a lie. I am hear to set the record straight. There is a HUGE difference between a man fucking the shit outta you and having great sex. If a man has great stamina and a good sized cock, he can pipe the hell outta your pussy. Please don't think for one moment that this is not appreciated. However, this can not be all. Especially, if you are in a long term relationship. Sex will quickly become a chore and both parties will eventually lose interest. The fact of the matter is there are alot more ways that our pretty little pussies can be stimulated and aroused. We have so many pockets of joy and nerve endings in our vagina that you could literally have a different experience every day of the week. I want to first speak up and say to my fellows, be gentle when you're fingering the pussy. I know your a "man" but ruff ass hands in the bedroom is not kosher. How would you like it if I jacked your dick rapidly with a glove that had pineapple skin texture? Be gentle!! Its not just the clit that gets excited with the touch but around the clit and in the vaginal opening. (softly and gentle) Why the rush??!! Take your time. When done right it can be very pleasurable and gets the pussy nice and gushy for you. Oral sex, stop running from it. If you eat pussy like your at a wine tasting convention, its wrong and you should stop. Great head doesn't mean you fixate your teeth, lips and tongue on my clit and suck. No, oral sex incorporates the entire sexual organ and its surrounding parts. Lets take a look at the following diagram:

All of the labeled parts should be included in this process. In addition, don't forget the inner thighs. Even a little nibble on the butt cheeks are nice. When done correctly, you'll have you're woman crawling up the walls begging for the dick. Now, once we add some penis to the mix, don't get too excited and just start pumping away. Tease the pussy and take some time to discover her secret pockets of joy. Change positions and pace frequently. Last, and most important, pay attention to your womans body at all times!!! Her body language is your cliff notes to her satisfaction. Don't think because Person (A) enjoyed it that the rest of the alphabet will. Following these guidelines will provide a distinct difference between a good fuck and great sex. So to the nigga that says he's gonna "fuck the shit outta me." No thanks, I'm more interested in Great Sex.

Poetic Justice: Congratulations, My Pussy May Appoint You...

They call me Willy Wonka cause the gold wrappers all I fuck with
If you come with any other colors your intentions must not be to touch this
Like the tootsie roll owl don't ask how many licks
Just keep on going like that bunny till my clitoris ticks
I'm a tell you like these fat bitches one size does not fit all
So don't play yourself buying XL when you really are a small
This ones short and sweat, straight to the fucking point
As long you handle this pussy right its your dick she shall appoint

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

The Sacrifices of Love: Are you Sure you're Ready???!!?

Is it possible to be in love with someone so much that you want to protect them from yourself? With age comes the divine wisdom of oneself. I remember when I was in high school, there was a new family that moved into the neighborhood. The kids were fraternal twins, one boy and one girl. As we all remember, high school has many similarities to a prison. The whole "fresh meat" and "breaking em in" concept was in full effect. I was a pretty little black girl on two feet (didn't know it then) and as a result wreaked havoc from my peers. The ring leaders of this witch hunt were these two wilder beast, broken home, apes that just hated my existence. I was confused as to why I was the chosen one because these bitches were so fucking ugly and pitiful, EVERYBODY and ANYBODY'S situation was better than theres'. One girls mother bought a house near her husband and his lover to compete and try to keep tabs. The other one was a Latchkey Kid that was so insecure she became a self proclaimed gang bang professional. Anyway, when these twins came to the school they swore on the bible that the guy was theres. They tried to tell him not to talk to me and told everyone that this guy was interested in them. I didn't quite know about sexuality, the power of pussy or seduction but I was determined to not let this year be another emotional beat down session. Within a few weeks I had this young man wrapped around my fingers. He loved him some Nina and was so proud to call himself "my boyfriend." He had not drank from the KoolAide the rest of the miscreants drank from and saw just how dysfunctional these girls and there followers were. He walked me to all my classes, held my books and we partook in public displays of affection. They were livid!! LMAO!! I loved it, finally an anecdote for these bitches venom. The sad part about this story is, I really wasn't checking for this guy. He was a sweetheart but I wasn't into him at all. I needed him in my life at that moment to help me deal with my situation. I am sure even as adults we have or are currently doing the same thing with someone in our lives. We are using them to fill a void, provide for you or to cover a truth. I was a strong supporter of this behavior until I fell in love for the first time. True love, once experienced truly mimics what the bible says it is. 1 Corinthians 13: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.Love never fails." It is the most amazing feeling ever and the most self sacrificing emotion you will ever experience. When I realized that my actions were slowly starting to hurt someone I was with and we no longer had the same goals in the relationship, I opted to leave. This person was/is my best friend. It was my lifes mission to protect and support them and be the best wife I could be. I took this job very seriously and when I realized that I was the person they needed to be protected from, I had to make that difficult decesion. It would have been an unhealthy situation and I was not willing to not have that person in my life. If I had continued, it would have been a devastating end. So to my young readers, before you start tatooing names on your body, and proclaiming your undying love for someone. Allow yourself time to get to know that individual. When you are truly able to make difficult, unselfish decesions in your relationship and can sincerely profess to 1 Corinthians 13. Then maybe, just maybe you've tasted a little bit of that thing called love.

This video is of a young couple in New York. She just broke up with this young man and was saying goodbye. He decided at that moment to make a SELFISH and IRREVERSIBLE decesion that was all caught on a security camera. I show this video to send the message that this extreme is never ok and when I speak of "difficult decesions" I am not reffering to this. (CAUTION VIDEO IS GRAPHIC)