Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Tight Pussy or Dry Pussy???!!! That is the Question.....


Bitch please!! Get over yourself. I had to address this topic after having a conversation with this young lady that thinks the reason its hard for men to get in her pussy is because it is "so tight." No bitch it's probably because your a lesbian, not into the dude or not a sexual person. People, let us not forget that this is the same part of your body that spits out a small human being. A vagina is made to stretch, there is very few men with a dick "too big" to fit in your pussy. I have said it before and I will say it again, sex is 99% mental. When you are sexually excited, two special glands at the entrance of the vagina, called Bartholin's Glands, produce extra secretions. The moisture from these glands is more slimy than the moisture from the cervix, because its purpose is to provide good lubrication while you are having sex. As with most things in your body it has to be triggered. If you find yourself not getting moist, it may simply mean you are not aroused. This can stem from a variation of reasons. Inadequate foreplay, feelings of guilt, fear, relationship problems, not being attracted to the person, exhaustion etc....The list is endless but is all controlled by your mind. How important sex is to you as well as how important sex with that person is to you is a huge contributing factor. Also, remember that men generally get aroused sooner than women, so your man may be attempting to get in your pussy before you are ready. I will give you this, during menopause a women's oestrogen tends to be lower. Oestrogen is responsible for the plumpness of the lining of the vagina, for the elasticity of the tissues round the vagina and for the production of the moisture from the cervix. However, as women we produce an over abundance of juices so if you're really into your partner this decrease in oestrogen level should not impact you sex drastically, if at all. Guys if midway during sex your girls pussy goes dry, check yourself. Your girl has mentally checked out of this fuck session and you've no longer made it a "we" sex, instead its now a "me" sex. This is where really getting to know your woman's body comes in extremely handy. Personally, I think lube for a woman's pussy is a very selfish product. Lube is basically ignoring a woman's body speaking out. Dry pussy is a woman's body telling you, "I'm not impressed lets try something else." Why would you want to ignore that? Sex should be a mutual enjoyment! Why should the time span of a sexual session be determined by when a man cums? What if I want to keep fucking? My man should be able to read my body language and know that I have a few more rounds left in me. If he feels himself getting ready to cum, he should slow his pace or do what needs to be done to hold back on that nut. Ladies, if dry pussy is a common occurrence for you I ask you check your sexuality and your mate. One of the two is not a match. Unfortunately, we live in a society that places so much importance on getting to know other people before really getting to know yourself. Its impossible to conclude on your likes based on someone else. Get to know your bodies ladies! Masturbate, attend sex classes, find out what things turn you on. Most relationships start to come apart at the seams once that sexual chemistry and sexual desire for your mate is lost. That is the reality, so don't fight it. Embrace it, and actively work towards a healthy sexual relationship with your partner. So, to that young lady that swears her pussy is just so damn tight and that's why her man can't get in.......#getthefuckouttahere

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